Rick Parfitt: Depression left me a terrible mess

September 15 , 2007

STATUS QUO star RICK PARFITT credits his son RICHARD for preventing his life from spiralling out of control after suffering a bout of depression. The rocker went on a drinking binge after the breakdown of his second marriage in 2005 and moved in with his then-27-year-old son Richard, the offspring from his first wife, Marietta Boeker.

Rick ParfittThe rocker's welfare deteriorated rapidly and it was left to Richard to come to his aid, urging him to clean up his lifestyle and spend more time with his family. Parfitt recalls, "I crawled into a vodka bottle and Richard would find me in a state of collapse at 3am - on my own. I was in a terrible mess. "It got to the point where I didn't want to go out, I lost my confidence and my self esteem and I didn't know what to do. "(But then) Richard would say, 'Come on dad, come out with me. Do something. Go and play golf.'"

Pafitt let his late daughter down by refusing to give up alcohol and drugs after her death, according to the guitarist himself. He attempted to battle his drink and drug demons after his two-year-old daughter Heidi drowned in 1980, but admits the memories of her "floating face down in the water" sparked his self-destruction. He says, "Her death sobered me up, but before long I was back on two bottles of scotch a day and endless grams of coke. "I no longer took responsibility for my actions. It was like I died with Heidi."

Biography; Born 12 October 1948 in Woking, Surrey, England is best known for being a singer and the rhythm guitarist in the English rock band Status Quo. Rick first met band member Francis Rossi in 1965 in Butlin's Minehead whilst he was playing as Ricky Harrison in a musical trio called 'The Highlights'. Francis was playing with the Spectres (forerunner of Status Quo) at the time and Rick was sufficiently impressed to approach him with a view to working together. Nothing came of the meeting until 1967 when Rick joined Francis, Alan Lancaster, John Coghlan and Roy Lynes to form the classic Quo lineup.

Rick ParfittRick has been a continuous member of the group, while others have come and gone, and has penned some of their greatest hits, sometimes in collaboration with the group's keyboard player Andy Bown among them "Whatever You Want", "Again and Again", and "Rain". He recorded a solo album in 1985 while Status Quo had temporarily broken up, but it was never released. Among musicians on the record were bassist John Edwards and drummer Jeff Rich, formerly with the Climax Blues Band and Judie Tzuke, both of whom joined Status Quo when Rossi decided to reform the band in 1986.

On 16 June 2007, the presenters of the popular British children's television show, Tiswas, reunited for a special one-off show. Parfitt performed with the rest of Status Quo on the show (all of whom were constantly being plagued by the show's trademark practical jokes during the said performance), and presenter Chris Tarrant alleged that during a broadcast of the show in the early 1980s, Parfitt was smoking cannabis on live children's television. Tarrant could smell this, and soaked the crowd that Parfitt was in with water. Since soaking guests was part of the show's humor, this wasn't seen as unusual. Personal life

Rick has had an on-off relationship with childhood sweetheart Patty since meeting her when he was 20 and she was 18 in 1968. After the pair split up, Rick married Marietta Boeker and the pair had a son Richard (born 1978). Rick and Marietta then divorced, and he married Patty - the pair had a son Harry (born 1989). However, the pair divorced and Rick went on a period of various RockN'Roll relationships with young blondes, before reuniting with Patty in 2000. The couple lived in a £1million mansion in Teddington, South-West London, but after paying out more than £3million in divorce settlements, Rick vowed in 2005 that he would never marry again. However, in August 2006, after meeting 46 year old fitness instructor Lyndsay Whitburn, the pair married in a £40 ceremony in Gibraltar

Parfitt had a quadruple heart bypass in 1997. In December 2005 it was announced that he is to undergo tests for suspected throat cancer, but just before Christmas the tests found the growths to be benign.